My Thoughts For Today

9/4/17 @9:33am CST

Why is it that the broadcasters of news want us to believe that differences equate to hate? What do they gain by spreading that lie? Well, I suppose for starters they gain more hateful action to report on. I think our world needs to wake up and realize that what we see over the airwaves in no way depicts what life is truly like. We hear hateful things and then we begin to believe hateful things…equally we hear good things and we begin to believe good things. Why have we as a society allowed the opinions of a few to make us believe they are the opinions of all? We seem to believe what we hear and read without any regard to the one speaking or writing it. Angry people tend to spread anger, happy people tend to spread joy and content people tend to spread satisfaction. In all honesty I am tired of hearing about the angry people…it is exhausting.

I would like to challenge all news sources to be the one that sets a new trend. I believe people are very hungry to be heard and if negativity and hate is what gets them noticed that is exactly what they will continue to do to be heard. However, I believe many of those same people would strive to be contributing in good ways and promoting positivity if they believed that would get their voice heard. Perhaps, there is a news outlet that would be brave enough to start focusing on the good in communities, regions, and nations. I understand that there is a thought process of good things aren’t news; however, I would have to disagree with you…good things are news…because we don’t hear about them very often.

I have begun to shut down all the negativity the news is broadcasting. I’ve stopped listening. I’ve stopped allowing that thought process to consume me and my actions.

If we based our knowledge on what the airwaves were producing we would have to come to the conclusion that there is WAY more bad going on around us than good…I DON’T believe that at all! I know there is WAY more good going on in the world than bad. So, let’s start getting a news source that will report on a better percentage of reality! Our world will continue to go down the path of whoa-is-me if we continue to entertain that bad has overtaken good. It HAS NOT!

I would love to see factual reporting…not enquirer type of reporting. I remember decades ago when I was a child my mom, on occasion would pick up The Enquirer at the grocery store. She would say it had entertainment value because there was always a morsel of truth in each story surrounded by lies and fabrication that made it like a fiction novel. I believe that type of ‘reporting’ has become how our main news sources operate today. They provide enough truth to make something believable; however, filling most of what they report with hyperbole.

I want to hear about good things. Instead of the news berating everything our national leaders do; how about we start hearing about the facts of the good things that have transpired? Wow…that would be refreshing. How about we put ‘party’ affiliation to the side and merely broadcast facts with no spin? Hmmm…now there’s an idea. How about we stop blocking traffic to get our voice heard and start blocking bullies from robbing our children of their futures? How about we accept people for where they are at and show compassion even when we disagree with lifestyle?

In our world of news sources bashing people, bashing thoughts, bashing lifestyles, bashing beliefs we have become a world of pettiness. Pettiness leaves when we focus on others and not ourselves. When the eclipse was occurring all we heard about was people gathering to view it all over the world. This event served as an equalizer. It did not matter where you lived, what your religion or political affiliation was, what nationality or race you were, whether you were homosexual, heterosexual or any variation within that, whether you were able bodied or had limitation, whether you were a nuclear physicist or whether you were a street dweller. It didn’t matter…you could experience it. This event did not care if you were living in a mansion on a hill or if you were a squatter in an abandoned cabin. It didn’t matter!

Then shortly after that our nation was hit with Hurricane Harvey…and again we were not separated by our differences, we were united because of our compassion. People didn’t care what creed, sex, color, socioeconomic status or political party you identified with. Every type of person was being affected by the destruction Harvey brought. One group of people was not being chosen over another as to who to rescue first…all rescuers were helping all people. It didn’t matter if you lived in a mansion or on the street…you lost nearly everything you owned. Stuff didn’t matter, people did…no longer were you angry with your neighbor that didn’t see things as you did politically or otherwise. You’re only concern was for the safety of your family and those you love most. You didn’t care that your car was under water, you cared if you saw people going underwater.

Going Under Water…that is how our news sources are broadcasting everyday life…as though we are underwater and there is no hope other than to lash out and highlight our differences. Well, I have NEWS for those sources…Our World Is NOT Under Water! Our World IS Very Much Above Water. So, let’s start hearing about that being broadcast.

Which of the news outlets or reporters are going to choose to rise above the mountains of sensationalism and start broadcasting the truth, the uninhibited, un-sugar coated realness? Who will choose to be the one that will be known for turning the tide of ‘Fake News’ into the tide of ‘Trusted News’? Someone is going to do it and I believe that someone is going to be emerging soon.

It is time we as a people stop listening to the trash that is thrown at us and start looking for the good that surrounds us.

Okay…now I will step down from my soapbox:)

Remember...we have God's Word to stand on...Isaiah 41:10

I have not written here in nearly 10 months. Amazing at how fast that time has gone. I present the below writing to you. Not to argue, but to give a perspective I believe is led by what the Holy Spirit has spoken to me. Lord, direct our steps and give us peace & rest.

If my memory serves me correctly there are around 200 countries in our beautiful world. Of those countries, President Trump has chosen to put a hold on nationals entering the USA from 7 of the nations currently. I believe it is a 90 day wait while things are better put in place to offer the most safety for our nation. 

I do not understand the outrage. Change is a process & in the process there are steps that I may not completely agree with; however, I completely agree with the goal...keeping the citizens of our nation safe, allowing them the avenues to provide for their families & offering them opportunities. 

Our nation has taken in the poor, the widow, the child, the outcast and I don't see that ending (perhaps a pause from some volatile nations, but not an end). No where have I read that we should open our arms and provide for those that hurt and destroy what our land represents.

There is an old saying..."Don't throw the baby out with the bath water." The issue I think we need to examine is why we seem to want to keep the bathwater with the baby. It's like we fear letting something go when it seems to be part of it. The stench of the water needs to be addressed...if we don't 'filter' the water it will become toxic and will kill versus clean.  

I believe President Trump has the best interest of each American Citizen at heart. Sometimes hard decisions need to be made and we may not fully understand those decisions at the moment. We need to remember...not one of us is all knowing at what is occurring behind the scenes of government. We see and hear what the media tells us...which I find, for the most part is an 'Enquirer' approach to communicating news.

Take a deep breath and pray. Pray that those in power are led by God's purpose. Pray they are seeing clearly & are surrounded by upstanding people who are motivated by compassion and love for our nation. Pray God is the driver of all decisions and once you have done that...do it again...then wake the next day and do it again...& again...& again. 

Do not perpetuate fear when you have not humbled yourself and prayed. Fear is not heaven sent and promoting fear will certainly give power to who you should be wary of.

I believe in the beauty of God's ways; even when I do not completely see His plans clearly.

Self Imposed Prison

March 30, 2016 6:00AM

This morning as I was having a chat with God…you know the one…thanking him for much and requesting some:)

As I was in this conversation the Lord shared something with me that I thought was worth sharing with you.

I saw a 3 walled prison cell. On each bar words were listed …they weren’t just any words…they were words of bondage…sin.

Behind these 3 barred walls was a person. This person was holding onto the bars and shaking them in distress. Then…all of a sudden…the person appears to repent of their sin and turns slightly to the left…only to be met with more bars with words of bondage on them. Again the person appears to repent and turns to the right…and turns further than they did when they turned to the left. In this act the person is yet again met with more bars and bondage. Feeling distraught the person turns again to the center wall of bars and merely hangs their head.

At that point is when God spoke something profound to me.

Repentance without turning away from the sin and bondage will only leave us facing different sin and bondage. We must repent and COMPLETELY turn away from those things and when we do that we will notice that there is NO 4th wall! What should have been a 4th wall of bars that would have completely closed us in is gone. Why is it gone? It is gone because the blood of Jesus covers it. Jesus paid the price so we would not have to remain prisoners. He paid the price so we could have freedom. All we need to do is….

Repent from our sin and COMPLETELY turn from those things that bind us. When we do that we can walk like a free person and experience Peace, Contentment, Joy and Calmness in our lives.

As it states in Acts 3:19…Repent, then, and turn to God, so that refreshing may come from the Lord.

(I did my ‘primitive’ attempt at illustrating what I saw. It isn’t pretty…but I think it still speaks volumes.)

 

Be Better

March 28, 2016

 

I don't know your story.


I cannot pretend to know your journey.

My thoughts are mine and most of the time they do not need to be told.

Has society grown so cold that we really believe it is fine to hurt people in action and in word?

In our thought process do we truly believe we have all the answers and others are ignorant?

Is it really okay for us to discard the elderly along with their wisdom and to cast away the down trodden because we think we are better, wiser, stronger, or smarter?

We as people are losing ourselves and we don't even realize it. We have cast away people in the pursuit of self.

Relationships that were great are now awkward because we chose to focus on our 'feelings' instead of focusing on the beauty.

Nation has risen up against nation because of their knowledge through a culture filter...which, by the way does not give accurate information in the least.

Are we so fixated on hate and differences that we think that is what is best or 'normal'?

I have failed on many fronts, I have come up short in nearly every aspect of my life at different times; however, I am not willing to let that be my 'normal'...and you shouldn't either.

I want to see each person through the filter of heaven. I want to see the good, I want to see the value, I want to understand the journey. If I can truly understand someone's journey I will be better equipped to avoid the things that made them fall and embrace the things that made them stand tall.

I am not so naive as to think I cannot gain value and insight from each person The Good Lord has placed on this planet.

Maybe if we stop focusing on our feelings we can move forward as a society. Feelings lie...emotions cause us to make less than stellar choices. I hope the masses are being awoken inside like I believe I am...it is time to unify and become... one strong nation under God...vs remaining clusters of talkers that tear down much like spots of cancer that eat away at the inside.

We need not fear about the outside world destroying our beautiful land...lately we've been doing a good job of that on our own...from the inside out.

 

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

 

What's holding you back?

What's holding you back?

I find most people are fairly good at making it through the days and accomplishing the essential ins and outs of each day. However, that's not where the joy flourishes. None of us were put on this earth to only go through the motions of surviving...God's plan for us on this earth is to thrive where He has placed us...to fulfill the Destiny upon our life.

Has your passion been snuffed out by the busyness of life? What are the things that make your heart leap and energize your spirit? That my friend is where you need to be putting some focus. 

Living and dying are a part of life...however, making an impact...that's a conscious choice...don't waste your days living and dying...fill your days with your destiny purpose. 

You are significant to many people. You are the inspiration that will breath life into dead dreams. You are an igniter that will cause smoldering embers to burst forth with a mighty flame. 

Invest time each day seeking God's direction and being obedient to His assignments to your heart. 

You were created to live strong and mighty...don't get so tangled in the mundane that you can't break free to run into your destiny! 

How Long?

1/17/16-How long?

How long are you willing to wait for a miracle?

If you choose to stop waiting for your miracle and leave your belief for it behind, will that make your journey better or will you never truly forget about the hope that was present during the waiting for your miracle?

The above is what came to me during worship at church this morning. It was profound to me…how long ARE we willing to wait for a miracle. I know the quick Christian answer is…”a life time”. However, in reality are there ever times you are believing for something, praying for it and investing time in the hope of it…and then just walk away? I think we probably do that all too often. Perhaps that miracle is no longer important to us…or maybe our hope or belief waivers and we decide the disappointment of it not happening yet is easier to deal with than to keep hoping.

I think it is during our ‘waiting’ time where the enemy tortures our belief and hope and can cause us to lose sight of our desire.

I truly believe God has your miracle ready to be delivered, but then we stop waiting right before he has prepared to deliver it. That’s just sad to think about. You are probably closer than you can imagine with receiving the miracle you have been praying on…waiting for and believing in…you’ve invested much time into the thought of it…don’t give up on your miracle…tomorrow could literally be your day…and if it’s not…keep believing tomorrow is your day until your tomorrow becomes your TODAY!

I’m reminded of that old Journey song chorus…’Don’t stop believing’…when you stop believing that’s when hope flees. It is better to have hope and keep believing than it is to give up your hope and belief…that would be devastating.

I am believing that 2016 will be the beginning of a new normal…a new normal of expectation…a new normal of seeing the miracles…a new normal of believing in the impossible and seeing the impossible become possible.

"Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer." Romans 12:12

 

Trusting...

1/12/16-It’s Going to get Great

The Only constant is change…sometimes it’s good and sometimes not so much…but it is constant.

When you hear the voice of the Lord tell you…”it’s going to get great”…you would think that would be cause for excitement…but in that moment your heart aches and all you want to do is what God is asking you NOT to do. …and then again you hear…”it’s going to get great”…”trust me”.

Why is that so hard sometimes? Why is it easy to trust what we can see and so hard to trust when all the evidence in front of us would cause us to not trust that things can “get great”.

On WAY more than one occasion my flesh has gotten in the way of my peace. Sometimes I can get worked up over things that don’t even concern me, but I willingly put myself in that battle. An area I struggle with GREATLY is not stepping in to fight my children’s battles…I WANT TO…I want to take on the foe’s that come against them and rescue them from all pain and heartache; however, I am learning more and more that my job in those battles is to pray them through them, not to step in and win the battle for them…if I do that, I end up taking away their victory and I certainly don’t want to be selfish and do that!

The Lord has asked me to do something for 2 weeks…well, in reality He is really asking me to NOT do something for 2 weeks. It was in fact an “If/Then” statement. If I listen and step away from something for 2 weeks God will step in and do something…His exact words to me were…”It’s going to get great.” You would think hearing from God telling me that if I obey His request things were going to get great would be super exciting…honestly, it feels like torture. It’s a little like telling yourself you are not going to eat cookies and then everywhere you look you see cookies…car tires begin to resemble an Oreo, your spouse’s face looks like a Snicker Doodle and the Frisbee you never noticed in the garage screams CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIE to you every time you walk by. I suppose it’s about resisting temptation…I’m certain the lesson I am going to be learning in the next 14 days will be if I resist the temptation then the result will be great…and not only great, but I will have been TRIUMPHANT…I think that’s the piece that is the most rewarding…the reward is ACTUALLY being able to follow through and see something to it’s completion. The bonus from obedience…experiencing the reward!

“Better is the end of a thing than its beginning, and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.” Ecclesiastes 7:8

Reality Check?

1/11/16-Reality Check?

Have you ever woke up on any given day and thought…WHAT AM I DOING? I have to say some days I feel like I’m running full speed…but I must be running in circles because my to-do list didn’t shrink it actually grew! How is that even possible?

Some days I have it all together and then the alarm goes off the next morning and I am a disheveled version of who I was the day before. Some say…maybe it’s the “change of life”…well, not for me…No, I’m not in denial…I had the “change of life” come at the early age of 32 when the side effects of cancer decided to alter the natural course of things…but hey…I lived, so all is good!

Why is it we are all walking around attempting to make it look like we ‘got it all going on’? When in reality ‘my all’ on many days ‘got up and went’.

I’m doing my best to be real…to be authentic and to no longer hide behind the ‘everything is okay’ mask and the ‘I’m always happy’ mask. In reality, I really am okay most of the time and I really am happy most of the time…but not all the time. I want to give everyone reading this permission to be real…laugh when something is funny, cry when you have heartache and scream when nothing else seems to work. It’s actually quite liberating…although, I can’t remember the last time I screamed; hmmm…I must be due for that soon…lol!

Let’s begin 2016 with a reality check…be okay with you…embrace your uniqueness and share that with the world…after all God created you to be you…he didn’t create you to be a poor copy of someone else who you think has it ‘all going on’…because chances are…they have days where their ‘all’ has got up and ‘gone’!

“I can do all things through him who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:13

Failure Happens

1/10/16-Failure Happens

Glad when I mess up it’s not televised on national television!

Have we forgotten in TEAM Sports a TEAM Wins or a TEAM loses?

(For those that don’t know; I live in MN and it’s football playoffs…I need not say more about that:))

Off moments happen, that’s life. Those moments of failure when we anticipated success can definitely knock the wind out of our sails, but it does not remove our sails.

Life lesson from the January 10, 2016 Vikings game: IGNORE the haters, because they weren’t even in the game!

“Our enemies have no reason to gloat over us. We have fallen, but we will rise again. We are in darkness now, but the Lord will give us light.” Micah 7:8

Mixed Emotions

1/8/16-Mixed Emotions

One of the greatest joys I have is watching my children grow into the people they are suppose to be…and equally one of my greatest heartaches is watching my children grow into who they are suppose to be.

With the passing of each year my involvement in my children’s lives diminishes. No longer am I the provider of all things or in on every conversation and know every friend. I am no longer the fixer of all issues or the mender of all hurts.

I seriously have heartache some days as I watch them leave the house to pursue life. Its not that I don’t want that for them…I do! I want to do all I can to guide them to a full life of purpose; however, along the path no one told me in doing that I would be left in their dust.

You know the dust…the dust of years gone by…the dust in fact is the memories, the giggles as babes, the stitches and the trophies, the sleepovers and the birthdays, the goals and the finishes, the late nights and the early mornings.

Truth be told a part of me would go back to those days. Those days of having my family all together all the time; those days of more family meals together because we were all on the same schedule; those times of snuggles and wet kisses. Those times of star gazing and long strolls.

We have taught our kids over the years to be responsible and kind, to be courageous and steadfast, to bless others and to understand there is a big world out there…and then the day comes when they are and they do know and they soar.

Here's to embracing being left in the dust!

“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6